You could cast a wide net and sign up for every single dating site.
We started emailing that day and by the end of the week we had figured out we could talk via an app on our phones, we knew we liked each other and we clicked really well - even though we are from different ends of the earth!
By Christmas 2011 we knew it was serious so we told our families that we were planning to meet in March 2012.
Or you could follow our flowchart and find the one designed to pair you with the woman (or man, or costume-wearing sex slave) of your dreams.
It's a little weird at first, trusting a computer algorithm to pair you off.